发邮件给我用send me 还是send to me?

Send 是及物动词。
send sb sth

send sth to sb

所以是send me E-MAIL

或者是Send E-mail to me

都对！

send the mail/it to me
或send me the mail

send sb something
send something to sb

send something to somebody = send an email to me
send somebody something = send me an email

send接双宾

send me email
send email to me