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来源：百度知道 编辑：UC知道 时间：2024/06/30 06:20:58
The way people hold to the belief that a fun - filled, pain free life equals happiness actually reduces their chances of ever attaining real happiness. If fun and pleasure are equal to happiness then pain must be equal to unhappiness. But in fact, the opposite is true: more often than not things that lead to happiness involve some pain.
As a result, many people avoid the very attempts that are the source of true happiness. They fear the pain inevitably brought by such things as marriage, raising children, professional achievement, religious commitment （预担的义务）, self - improvement.
Ask a bachelor（单身汉） why he resists marriage even though he finds dating to be less and less satisfying. If he is honest he will tell you that he is afraid of making a commitment. For commitment is in fact quite painful. The single life is filled with fun, adventure, excitement. Marriage has such moments, but they are not its most distinguishing features.
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纯手工翻译：
The way people hold to the belief that a fun - filled, pain free life equals happiness actually reduces their chances of ever attaining real happiness. If fun and pleasure are equal to happiness then pain must be equal to unhappiness. But in fact, the opposite is true: more often than not things that lead to happiness involve some pain.
人们坚信，生活充满乐趣、无忧无虑就是幸福。而这样做实际上恰恰减少了获得真正幸福的机会。如果乐趣与快感等同于幸福，那么痛苦也就等同于不幸。然而事实却恰恰相反，绝大多数情况下，快乐与痛苦相生相伴。

As a result, many people avoid the very attempts that are the source of true happiness. They fear the pain inevitably brought by such things as marriage, raising children, professional achievement, religious commitment （预担的义务）, self - improvement.
结果，很多人没有尝试，而这些尝试正是幸福的源泉。他们害怕由一些事情带来的不可避免的痛苦，诸如婚姻，抚养小孩，职业成就，宗教责任和自我发展等等。

Ask a bachelor（单身汉） why he resists marriage even though he finds dating to be less and less satisfying. If he is honest he will tell you that he is afraid of making a commitment. For commitment i